9th Day of Christmas Giveaway….. with Wendy Blight
On the 9th Day of Christmas….. here comes another Proverbs 31 speaker giving away a great gift! If you are just joining us in our 12 Days of interviews and giveaway goodies, click here to get caught up. You can enter to win the prizes on any of the 12 posts until midnight EST on this coming Sunday, December 13th.
Today, you will meet my friend (and Kenzie’s other mother for the last four months) Wendy Blight. Wendy has a love for studying and teaching God’s word and helping women find their worth in Christ. She has authored a book, Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner. In it, she chronicles the story of being sexually assaulted in her apartment one week after college graduation and the resulting scars it left on her life. However, God did not allow her to stay stuck. He rescued and redeemed her life. Wendy’s story is one of transformation from trauma to rebirth through the power of the Word of God.
If you are around this gracious gal for even a few minutes, her beautiful disposition, others-centered personality and endearing smile shine brightly and you feel as if you’ve known her for years! You are in for a treat today. As we are winding down our nearly two weeks of giveaways, meet the lovely and much-loved Wendy Blight:
Hi everyone! I am Wendy Blight. My husband, Monty and I have been married twenty years. We live in Charlotte, North Carolina with our two children Lauren (16) and Bo (12). Before moving to Charlotte, we lived in Dallas, Texas where I practiced law for several years. Since moving to Charlotte, I have been actively involved in both teaching and writing curriculum for Bible studies, as well as speaking to churches and various other organizations. I currently serve with an incredible group of women on the Proverbs 31 Speaker team.
Now for our interview:
Many of the gals have shared on this blog about favorite Christmas traditions. Does your family have one to share?
Yes, we do. We have had a little Christmas book, ever since our kids were little, that we love to read each night in the days leading up to Christmas. It is an older, and now probably out of print, book entitled The 25 Days of Christmas. It has a Christian message for each day December 1-25 and really helps to keep us focused on the true meaning of the holiday.
What has been your most memorable Christmas as an adult?
When Lauren was a baby, a dear woman, who had made a stocking for me years earlier, made one for her. She even made one for my husband too so we could have matching stockings as a family. Later, she also crafted one for our son Bo when he was born. She was a friend of my great-grandmother (the famous fudge maker I mention below) and her gesture touched my heart so much. She has passed away now, but I always have fond memories of her and our special stockings made with love.
Is there a Christmas movie that holds a special memory for you?
My daughter Lauren and I love to watch White Christmas, and the whole family adores watching Elf and giggling together!
What are some of your favorite Christmastime foods? Any recipe you might share with us?
We simply love my great grandmother Reppe’s famous Christmas fudge. She was my mother’s grandmother and she often made this most delicious treat she called Fantasy Fudge. Here is the simple recipe:
Fantasy Fudge
3 C. sugar
¾ C. margarine
2/3 C. evaporated milk
1- 12 ounce bag semi-sweet chocolate chips (I use only Ghirardelli brand)
17 ounces marshmallow crème
1 t. vanilla extract
In a medium saucepan, combine sugar, margarine and milk and gently boil. Remove from heat and stir in chocolate chips. Add marshmallow creme and vanilla. Beat well and pour into a buttered 9 x 13 inch pan. Let cool and cut into squares. Makes 3 lbs.
Wendy, you are so thoughtful to be offering a giveaway today for one of the gals who leaves a comment. Tell us what it is.
I will be giving away a copy of my book Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner and a $10 Starbucks gift card so the winner can sip something she enjoys while she reads!
Thank you so much, Wendy, for visiting with us today!
Well, if you’d like to win Wendy’s giveaway, leave a comment letting us know the answer to this Christmas question: How are you coming on your shopping? 1/2 done? All done? Not even close? Let us know! You’ll be entered in the giveaway.
I’ll go first….by my best scientific calculation, I would say I am 92.8% done.
(or somewhere near that figure)
How about you?
Christmas-is-Getting-Close Blessings,


















I’m 90% done with most family and friends, but I’m only about 30% done with my immediate family. Gotta get moving…
After giving your question some thought, I realize I am about 50 % done with my Christmas shopping. Thought I was further along than that. I plan to go shopping this Friday, so hopefully I can get most of it done then.
I am not even close to being done. Most years, I am finished and having fun wrapping now, but we are waiting on the Christmas bonus before starting this year!
I’m real close. I have been wrapping the last two nights so I can see where I stand. It doesn’t help that 3 out of the 5 of us have December birthdays – so I have to keep all that straight too!
Not even close to being done. I am giving lots of homemade gifts this year, and I think this fudge recipe will fit the bill nicely!
I read this book and did Wendy’s online study re:it this past summer and I highly recommend it to anyone who is battling with hurt and forgiveness and moving into the freedom God wants for you. Her transparency and sweet personality made me yearn for more and more of our sweet Jesus.
I don’t need the giveaway, just wanted to encourage others to get to know you and how big God is in your life.
Our family Christmas readings have included the Arnold Ytree trilogy. “Jotham’s Journey” is the 1st book in the series. Even though the older kids have heard it before, they still listen in while I read it to the younger ones.
Have a blessed day.
I haven’t started Christmas shopping. Trying to find a day when I can go kid free has been difficult.
I haven’t started shopping yet but I am going today and Thursday to get it done, I have lists and ideas but that’s about it.
I’m also doing more home-made stuff this year (especially baking) to save money.
I am half-way done. I got a lot of gifts on Black Friday! I plan to go Thurs., but with the snow storm coming today and Wed., not sure if I’ll go. WI weather is soooo unpredictable!
I’m prob. almost 1/2 way done….still quite a lot to do yet. I hope to go sometime this week.
I am 2/3 done shopping. All that I have done has been wrapped. But i still need to do my Christmas baking – which is a part of my gift giving.
1/2 done!
I have two gifts so I am not even a 1/4 done. Time is moving fast.
I am about 80% of the way done. I am still holding out for the perfect used kitchen set for my 3 year old.
I would like to say I am 100% done but with money being tight I’m not. So I would say I am about 50% done.
I am all done shopping. I am not done, however, on making stuff. I try to give at least one thing to each of my children that I have made. I know what I want to do, so now I just have to get it done. I also wanted to make some fudge for my siblings (now which recipe to choose?) to go along with the homemade blueberry jam set aside for them. The thing is, since we are going to my sister’s house for Christmas this year, we are opening presents up for our family before we leave. I have to have all of this done by the 19th!
About half way I’d say!
Two present left to buy! (but I’m at a complete loss with those)
I think I’m about 85% finished. Need to go through what I have and see what still needs to be accomplished. Also need to take my boys shopping too. I also am in the midst of making gifts too – homemade soap, candles, knit scarves and dish cloths.
Not even close to being done, just barely started. I always say I am going to do better every year, but it hasn’t happened yet!!
I’m not even close and to be honest I haven’t really thought about it. I just can’t handle the stress of it all, I guess.
Chocolate always makes things better!
Not even started I’m afraid to admit.
I”m about 75% done. Going on a date with my son tonight to do a little more shopping
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I’m 100% finished but have nothing wrapped and still have a few homemade gifts to finish assembling. Making progress!
Havent even started. will get started this weekend though.
Barely started. I have 2 boys (5 and 6) and have bought one thing for them…together! A Wii system with all the extras that my sweet loving sister offered to sell to me for 1/2 the price she paid. Plus it has the Wii Fit in there for mommy…I gotta get fit!
I’m about 50% done! Not where I wanted to be by now, but I’ll take it!
Wendy, the book you mentioned sounds awesome. I want to see if I can find a copy!
Prayers and blessings!
I think I’m about 55% done. I have my kids and my daughter’s secret angel bought for. I still have to buy my husband something, and fill the stockings. Next year we are taking karen’s advice and doing the three gifts. It’s another way we can help our young kids identify Christmas as a celebration of Jesus’ birth.
I would say that I am 80% done, and trying to NOT STRESS about the remaining 20%!
Done.
This year is a little different since I am pregnant and due January 4th…I wanted to be finished in case my little blessing came early. I am about 85% complete and just need to find time to pick up the other stuff. But also due to the pregnancy (and all the new baby stuff that goes with that) we have scaled back this year, so it has been easier.
By now I’m usually completely fininshed with shopping. Unfortunately this year I’m way behind, maybe 50% finished. Thanks for the giveaway, hope to win
Glad to say I am nearly done with my shopping. We don’t give tons of gifts. We do service projects and take on other families for giving.
What I am not done with is baking. I am hoping to do some chocolate covered cookies with the kids real soon.
Thanks for the great fudge recipe.
I’m usually almost done with shopping and working on baking by now. Not so this year! Just can’t get my act together to get out and get moving. I do have a plan to start this weekend if I don’t have an opportunity before.
Can’t thank you enough for the time to reflect on different celebrations of the season!! I’m enjoying the pace – aside from not having the shopping done – and I’m not stressing over it!
Hello Karen and Wendy:)
Wendy is a lovely lady i have rarely encountered someone so down to earth and with such a heart for other women who are hurting, I just love her:) About my shopping i have gotten about 30% of it done, i will get the rest at pay day on the 18th:) Mostly my nephews i got to buy for now i have three of them and they are pretty fussy, if you have any ideas let me know i have a very limited amount of money to spend on their gifts:) God bless you
Happily about 80%!
I would say that I am about 60% done. Seems like it is getting here so fast!
I need to finish my mom’s and the church janitors and Sam’s school bus drivers, and then I’m done. Love it. I’m a little late, I always try to be done shopping and wrapping by the first week in December!
Hello Ladies-
I have finally made the plunge to write on your blog even though I have been reading them for a little over a month. I enjoy reading about each of the women of P31 Ministries. It’s like having a bunch of mentors sharing tidbits of wisdom to a young woman. I won’t get too much into my story but I was raped at 17 and sexually abused for two years before that. I have been through a couple sexually abusive relationships and a year and a half ago took the plunge to finally seek professional counseling. Many people have touched my life and God is truly the Redeemer. I am so thankful for the courage of the women in this ministry like Melissa Taylor and specifically Wendy and the many other women who blog and share their story and shine light on this particular dark circumstance. Wendy’s book sounds fabulous. Anyways… I just wanted to say thank you.
As for Christmas shopping, I haven’t even started! As a senior in college it is hard to make time for it until after finals! Ekkk!!!
Erin
I think I am half way done but honestly am not sure. I need to spend a morning assessing where I am at but seriously who has time??
Haven’t even started and not because of lack of time but lack of ideas of what to give for gifts. I’m drawing blanks this year on everyone.
I am about 50% done. I havent even started shopping for hubby yet, he is the hardest one to buy for.
I’m about 12% done with shopping! Going diy this year
Not even close and probably won’t be doing any shopping at all. I will be happy if I can get my grandson something. The rest will just have to receive my love and prayers.
Not even close…and may not get there, which I’m trusting will be okay as we’re celebrating a 50th b-day and 25 years of marriage this month, too. I’m praying for God’s peace through this sacred season.
Nowhere near done. I’d say I’m about 15% finished, and that is being generous. But, there’s plenty of time left.
How fun it is to hear where everyone is in the “shopping’ mode. I am about 75% finished!! I love the great attitudes…plenty of time left…I won’t get stressed…I’m praying for God’s peace. With my daughter having surgery on the 21st, have to buy the rest by December 20th!!! But I join Karla who says “I am not stressing over it.”
Thank you, Karen for sharing my story and an opportunity to win a copy of my book, Hidden Joy. Thank you to my sweet bloggy friends who left kind and encouraging comments. And most especially, sweet Blessings to each of you, and I pray you have a joyous and blessed Christmas!!
Wendy
I am about 95% done… this is the first time that I have ever been this far at this date. It has been so nice!
Not even close! I have a list done! Now I have to do the budget. And for the gifts I’m making, I’m overwhelmed!
I’m in
I’m about 1/2 done.
I hope to finish up tomorrow.
I’m probably 1/3 done, but I plan to get a lot done tomorrow!
I love watching Elf…makes me laugh
Terry
http://pink-itsmorethanjustacolor.blogspot.com/
I think I am about 3/4 done. At least I hope I am
I’m half done!!
Probably 3/4 done, gotta get something for hubby yet.
I have not really started yet.
I have not yet started.
Just need two gift card and all done!
I’m IN!!!!
I’m in. Thanks.
I have not started my shopping yet! Need to get busy! And I cant tell you when the last time i read a book or took some “me” time was.
Would love to read your book!
Hmm. I don’t know. I’m about 75%.
I have heard wonderful things about Wendy’s book and would love to read it!
Julie =)
I would say about 47%. Gotta pick up the pace…
3/4 done!
50%!! Yikes!!
I’m sooooo not even sure where I’m at with my shopping!
I’m about 80% done
Believe it or not, my husband does the majority of the shopping. I buy a special gift for our children, but he does the rest. (I think he’s just about done!)
I have completed the store and online shopping and now have to crack down and make treats for friends and neighbors.
Merry Christmas!
getting there…
I have Wendy’s book and it’s on my list to read as soon as this Christmas rush is over. I am about 95% done my shopping, but only about 10% done my wrapping. And…we’re down to 12 days and counting!
Moving forward,
Joy
I can say I’m done with Christmas shopping. A few weeks ago I was informed by my sister that we were not giving gifts this year so I don’t have to go shopping. I only had to get a gift for my three closest friends. I don’t even know if anyone in my family has made plans for Christmas day like whose house we wil be going to that day.
I’m in. I am close to being finished shopping, but I love to leave a couple of things until the last minute so I can be out with the crowds. Nutty, huh?
I am just about done. I need to be like Santa and check my list twice (or more!) and make sure. We will be returning to MI for Christmas and we can’t wait. We have been living in GA for 15 months and are excited to see snow again!
one last person to shop for – my husband! how is it that he’s the hardest one to find a special gift for?
LOTS MORE SHOPPING yet to do. Our giant blizzard this week sure didn’t help!
Almost done!! Yipee!!
I am about 85% done. Monday will be my finish up day (I hope!).
I’m about done…having a grandchild’s b’day a week before Christmas is a real kicker too..have to plan for that ahead of time…I’m in
I’m almost done…now need to think about wrapping!
Probably about 80%. There are still some nieces and nephews to shop for.
I’m over half done and not wanting to overspend…
Mostly done. Need to work on some stocking stuffers and pick up a few minor things.
My shopping list is very short this year so 100% unless I find some incredible deal on my DD’s favorites between now and then.
I’m in