What Would You Do?…..(and a chance to win a She Speaks Scholarship!)
Published April 21, 2010Welcome Weight Loss Wednesday gals. Please leave a comment today, even if you are new, letting us know how your week went. I love to see your progress and watch how you encourage each other.
And I love to see you chime in on the topic at hand. Today’s one is near and dear to my heart and goes right along with a giveaway you have a chance to win.
I know many of you get geeked when I give away a $5 Starbucks card. (I love me a skinny latte as much as the next gal) However, this prize is worth over $500!!! (Hang with me….details below.)
But first, our topic…..
What would you have the confidence to do if you weren’t ashamed of your weight?
If you weren’t embarrassed by your “muffin top” (the fluff that spills out over the top of your jeans)? Or if you weren’t so self-conscious about the way you looked in clothes or guilt-ridden about vowing for years to lose weight and then actually gaining instead?
What would you do?
Would you wear jeans with a belt and with your shirt tucked in? Volunteer at your child’s school? Play tennis with your teen? Take a ballroom dancing class with your hubby? Sing in church? Jog down the street like you used to when you were younger?
What would you do?
Nearly 5 years ago when I weighed over 250 pounds, I had a dream. It was something I had wanted to do for a few years, but lacked the confidence to actually follow through on.
I’d been speaking and writing for years, but had never had any formal training, nor been to a writers or speakers conference. I’d written several articles for the Proverbs 31 magazine and was aware that they had a national speaking team.
Several women had expressed to me what a perfect fit that team would be for me since I so believed in P31 and its mission.
However, there was one slight little problem. To be a part of the team, I had to attend the P31 She Speaks Conference in Charlotte, NC. And, as part of the conference, I had to be critiqued on my speaking. By a peer group.
Oh yeah…and since I’d already been speaking for over a decade by then and would fall into the ‘professional’ speaker category, my group leader, who would also evaluate me, was none other than P31′s president and speaker extraordinaire Lysa TerKeurst.
Gulp.
Couple those requirements with the fact that I felt like a failure with my weight, well…..it just sent me to the nearest grocery store to buy and down an entire bag of Coconut Chips Ahoy cookies and chase it down with a pint of some fattening gourmet full-fat ice cream.
I felt fat.
And stuck.
For a few years I stayed fat.
And stuck.
However, once I obeyed God in my eating and made some progress in my weight loss, my confidence level rose.
The next time the conference came around, I signed up. I had no idea how I was going to pay for it, but I signed up anyway.
God saw fit that my flight was covered. I received a voucher for a free airline ticket when I was bumped on a return flight from a speaking engagement. Then, 75% of my conference fee was covered in an unexpected way. It was clear that it was my year to go.
And actually, turns out it was surprisingly relaxed and fun and not threatening at all. My fears had been unfounded!
The rest has been nothing but a huge blessing. P31 is a perfect fit for me and I thank God every day for my connection with my sisters in ministry.
Now—-I ask you again….What would you have the confidence to do if you weren’t ashamed of your weight?
Please tell us (and let us know how your week went)….
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Note: The She Speaks conference is not just for current and want-to-be writers and speakers, but also for any woman in ministry. If you would like a chance to win a scholarship to attend the She Speaks conference……read the short post below.
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I think I’d have more confidence in so many areas of my life. but for me I think I would go out more as I dont like cameras and video cameras. I do not like seeing the images when people send snap shots or video clips back to me. Then I see how big I really look as it seems the mirrors in my house lie to me. In my family, I try to keep control of the camera and stay behind the lens instead of in front of it. But that makes me feel sad as I go through photos, there are not many memories of me.
I did lose 1 pound this week. I do need a start over — again. This week I’m going to work on being more prepared. Thanks for the encouragement.
Blessings-
Shonda
I would ride a bicycle with my girls. I would attend some art classes or French classes or any other class I felt interested in. I would definitely go to China to teach English on a mission trip through my church.
This week I have done great in some ways–ate more vegetables, drank more water, but I also have had days were I couldn’t resist the double ice cream cup or the walnut studded brownie. I only weigh in every three weeks at my doctor’s office so as not to be discouraged because I have learned moving more means more muscle and muscle is heavier than fat so i will wait until Saturday to see how i have done over all. Hope everyone has a blessed week!
I’d take my girls swimming! I’m always looking for excuses for why it won’t work to go each week, but the real reason is how much I hate wearing my swimsuit!
Good news: I’m down 3 lbs this week.
This isn’t a so much what I would do, it’s a what I have done. This weeks weight loss is 4.5 lbs bringing my total to 35 lbs. I still have 15 more to go till my goal. Now remember I have been doing WW since the beginning of the year.
I use to make up excuse after excuse to not take our girls to the local rec center for the open public swimming. After getting some of this weight off I finally went with my family and we had a blast. It was so nice and freeing. My husband was so happy that he wasn’t the only one taking the girls and the girls were thrilled to have their mom there (or maybe they were excited because they got to each take a friend. I am going with me! LOL)
I still an insecure in some ways but I am working on them with God’s help and 1 lb at a time.
Keep up the great work ladies. Every day is a challenge but with God we can do it!!!!!
I would wear a dress! Sounds soooo small but it has been years since Ive worn one. I probably over exaggerate the idea that I “cant” wear one but when I wear a dress, I want to look good in it!
I am 2 wks. in to my weight loss program and I feel very focused. Im not trying to be perfect, only consistant. CONSITANCY IS KEY TO BREAKTHROUGH!
Im eating low carb because this is a good fit for me. Im also concentrating on drinking more water and also Im getting on the eliptical machine for 30 min. a day. (I started out w 10 min) So far Ive lost 6 lbs. woop woop!
2 things Ive learned so far….1. a womans weight fluctuates even when youre not cheating so only weigh once a week.
And 2. If you consistantly do the right thing according to your plan, the weight HAS to come off.
Lets all stick with it girls! We can be the best version of us….the one God always intended us to be!
This post really has me thinking – What is God preparing me to do? I am hearing different versions of this same message over the last few weeks – new talk series at church – Beth Moore’s Esther Bible Study – now this post. I do agree that losing weight will help prepare me and uncover my destiny in Christ. I have to be honest I’m not sure right now what that it. I’m sure He will reveal it to me at the perfect time. I am focusing right now on preparing and praying. Thanks again Karen for giving us such great food (pun intended
for thought!
I have had a rough week and am up 1 pound – Declaring a start over today! Time to dig through some scripture and get back into the battle!
I would go after a better job! Between being out of the workplace raising kids, my age (48), being overweight, and being trained in a very fast paced industry (graphic design) I just don’t feel like I can compete with the twenty-somethings out there anymore. I FEEL dated! My Mom used to say she was aware of becoming “invisible”at this age; I didn’t know what she meant at 25, but I know now. Good news, though, I joined JennyC yesterday and am focused on that goal!
I felt called to teach women since a very powerful experience in 1998- a true Holy Spirit encounter. Since then, I’ve had many opportunities, small and large, to teach my sisters and even have had a few small speaking engagements. I want nothing more than to know how to do a better job, so that I can do a better job of getting out of the way and letting God do His thing in me! I feel that She Speaks would do that for me!
Heatherly
I would love to be able to wear more form fitting clothes rather than the “flowing” ones to cover the “muffin top”, lumps & bumps!
I have been back to WW for 6 weeks now & I did real well the first few weeks (I have lost a total of 8.4 lbs) but have been in a holding pattern for the last 2 (with a .2 gain this past week) so it’s gotten me a bit bummed!
I have been tracking & doing well, I thought … but it’s just not coming off so trying to stay away from anything “processed” this week & stay the course plus push the water.
I know that it’s NOT going to happen unless I make it happen so I must see that it does by not getting discouraged which is where Satan wants to keep me!
I would like to have more confidence. I would like to ride a bicycle, run and wrestle with my children. I would like to have more energy. I want to wear a bathing suit. There are so many things that I would love to do with less weight. Most of all I want to feel more comfortable about how I look and stop feeling so guildy about my failure to stay committed to loosing weight.
I have never posted before, so I’m feeling a bit shy. I have been feeling the tug to speak to women’s groups for some time, and my weight is only one of the things that holds me back. Sometimes I wonder if I stay at this weight so that I won’t have to step out and do something new. Silly, huh? I’ve been home with children for 20 years and definitely need to move out of my comfort zone. I agree with the post above that describes this age (51) as “invisible”. It’s easy to slip into that mode instead of really standing up for the Lord. Thanks for making me think about this. I need to reexamine the reasons that I am stuck at this weight and
do something about it!!
My devotional calendar for today says “You pay God a compliment by asking great things of Him.” ~ Teresa of Avila. “If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.” 1 John 5:14
So far, this deeply embedded dream in me to speak/write has been a prayer answered by ‘wait on Me!’ But, God is stirring in me to believe with great FAITH that this scripture in 1 John will be fulfilled. So, with great faith, I am asking to be considered for this scholarship so that maybe, just maybe, this will be the beginning of God’s answer to my prayers changing from ‘wait’ to “Child of Mine…Go For It!!” Thank you so much for this chance to be my beginning…
Kim Wideman
jrmh.29.11@gmail.com
I’m discouraged but know there have been some successes this week. I’ve begun writing down the foods I eat and I’m focusing on healthy ones but I still crave sweets soooo much! I ask God for guidance but wonder how will it come? I long for them so much when everyone else is eating them around me. The scale has stayed the same.
Losing weight IS giving me confidence! It is a slow process, but I keep telling myself that it is giving my skin time to shrink better! LOL
I’m only losing about half a pound a week now, down 19 pounds since mid-January, but yesterday I had the confidence to try on everything in my closet and hang only the stuff that actually fits. Too big? Off to Goodwill. Too small? If it is still in style (I’ve kept stuff for 15 years because I thought I might someday be small enough to wear it), I put it in my “next month” basket and will try it on again in a few weeks. No longer in style? Off to Goodwill!
It was a great feeling!
I want to be the person that God has planned for me to be. I think that includes having body confidence. And little by little, that is what I am gaining. Next month: tackling a rock-climbing wall for the first time ever!
I am new to this blog and to P31. A friend pointed me in this direction, as she knew my weigh was a stronghold that satan has in my life. My weight keeps me from venturing outside my comfort zones, at church, at home and at work. My weight saps my energy, keeping me from doing everything God has for me.
I weigh around 250, and before the birth of my one and only 16 yr. old child I weighed 135. I gained 90 pounds during pregnancy, lost 65 of it. Then when I got married I slowly started packing it on pound by pound, dorito by dorito.
So here I am 13 years married, a size 22, 35 years old and now what?
If this weight was off me I would go to the beach and swim, swim, swim. When I was in high school I was on the swimming and diving team, and had no confidence issues strutting around in a swim suit. Now the thought of it causes debilitating fear. This body I have been trapped in for 15 years has kept me from so much!! I want freedom, I want a full life, I want to do all the things God has for me!!
If I were thinner, I would have the nerve to start an excercise/devotion class at my church. I have always thought that something with a short devotion, and then stretches and exercises and relaxation to Christian music is something that would be good for all ages at our church! But how can you start something like that if you’re 100 lbs overweight? Well the scale was minus 3 this week, so we are headed in the right direction. I pushed my restart button last week and decided with the help of the Lord and all of you, I am committed to eating healthier and exercising to reach my full potential. My employer has a wellness program that has helped me tremendously, and now I am on board with all of you, and of course God was always there to assist, so I feel like this time, it is for good! God’s Peace to all of you this week.
Oh, and just another little thought somebody shared with me this week: “God doesn’t drive parked cars”! (I sat parked for far too long!) We have to get it in gear, y’all! My battle cry: “Onward!”
First of all – up .6 this week. But the weekend was full of poor eating choices, but a lot of joy because I get married Saturday. So be it and the I’m not worrying about the .6 – I think i did OK all things considered. I’m not sure what I’d do differently, but I’d really like to feel better doing the things I enjoy. I’d like to hike and walk and I’d like to be able to go farther without being winded. I’d like to have the energy to WANT to do the active things.
Whoops! – that should be that I got married this past Saturday.
Hello, dear sisters!
I type with heavy heart today. My husbabnd’s dear grandma passed away late last night. We will miss her terribly, but she is finally home with Jesus. Pray for us as we make a HUGE trip from eastern Iowa to eastern Colorado with a toddler for funeral services.
I have been following the “Thin Within” book by Judy and Arthur Halladay. It is a very different, God-centered approach to “releasing weight”. It has really made me think about my relationship with food, other people, and especially my Father God. It has challenged me to look at why I eat when I am not physically hungry–and to trust God more deeply in ALL things, including when and how much I eat. I really need to trust God more, so this has come at the right time in my life.
I am down another 2 lbs this week, by the grace of God and with His help! I pray that I will continue to be able to eat when hungry and stop when satisfied, not stuffed.
I am wanting more energy to do things with my family. I returned to the gym last week, and am beginning to feel better. Yesterday as I got ready for bed I realized that I didn’t feel the need to lie down or take a power nap. I was cleaning like a crazy woman yesterday, and it didn’t bother me. Y’all, this is huge for me! Thank you Lord for getting me moving again. I got on the scale this morning and I have lost 1.5 pounds. Babysteps.
I’ve never attended a She Speaks Conference and would love to be able to. We haven’t had an income for the past 6 months and so the scholarship would be an amazing blessing. It’s the body of Christ working together that completes us and makes us whole. I know God’s calling me to speak and since “iron sharpens iron” I’d love to have my iron sharpenend at a “She Speaks Conference”.
Julie Gorman
julie.gorman@comcast.net
This is my first time to blog. For the last 2 days my daily devotional has been based on “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me will never hunger. John 6:35. I know that God feeds me at His Table I just need help in not being fed so much at (my table). I know that if I lost the weight I would feel more confident in myself. I am a massage therapist I work with the elderly and for hospice. I feel that my co workers and the people that I come in contact with on a daily basis would take me more seriously if I was thinner. I have to loose the weight I have medical problems and if I don’t loose it I’m going to loose me. I made it through yesterday and today is a new day. I pray that today will go as well as yesterday. God Bless
Kendra Graham April 21, 2010 at 9:35 am
Anonymous said…
Alone, I am not worthy to attend SheSpeaks. With God this is possible. I feel a need to scatter and grow His Kingdom. If he can take this hot-tempered, silly,stubborn woman to help others. Then that is what I need to do! I would truly appreciate this awesome opportunity!
Many Blessings,
Kendra Graham
Grahamwrld@att.net
There are so many things I look forward to doing at a lower weight. I look forward to sitting at the beach and not being so aware of my weight that I don’t even enjoy it. I look forward to having the energy to do more things with my husband and children instead of being beat at the end of the day doing daily activites because I carry extra weight with me. I look forward to wearing that belt with a pair of jeans and tucking in my shirt. I look forward to the time when food is not always on my mind but an afterthought. I know God wants me to have these things and I know he offers to help be obtain them. He has shown me that this week as I waited on Him to bring hunger to me before I had something to eat. This is the first time in a long time that the feeling of hunger has not sent me into a panic. I am starting to break food’s hold on me!! I know it will be a long road, but I have started and that is all that matters. God saw fit to reward my obedience with a weight loss of 3.5 pounds. Thank you Lord!!
What motivation!! Wow. You guys are all great! I’m so proud of everyone and the positive attitudes are fantastic. I love that! I’m down 1 #. It’s going slower than I was hoping, but I can’t really say I was perfectly obedient this week. I slipped several times, BUT have been able to jump right back in there. Exercising has saved me!
The list of things I would do is to long to post!! lol But mostly I want to play tennis again and I want to wear unique cool clothes (well cool by my standards…ha…may be just weird by someone elses!!) I’ve been covering up for too long. I want to wear form fitting clothes and hold my head up high. I’ve spent the last 10-15 years trying to blend in to the woodwork so no one would notice me clothes wise. That’s just not who I am. I would swim as well. SOMEDAY!!
God bless you all this week. We can do this!
Well……I think I would get a new swimsuit if I could reduce this belly.
This week I was more aware of eating healthy…..still have a long way to go though. Also, did some walking with the kids, and did some leg lifts with my 1 yr. old hanging on for extra resistance!
WTG Jessica!
Vicki, I want to see your style! I think I have peculiar taste myself & have lost it due to becoming a mom.
I have never taken swimming lessons, my kids need to learn too, so I’d learn with them at the Y if I was in better shape BUT being pregnant this summer is a good cover up, so I just might splurge on a maternity suit & take the plunge!
I would wear a bikini. Right now my muffin top flows over my itty, bitty bikini bottom. But I’m on my way. This week was a bit challenging. I’ve had a terrible time with fatigue in the mornings – either due to allergies or my thyroid or both. So I missed some work outs. It even happened this morning, but I worked out yesterday and I’ll fit it in this afternoon.
I would go hiking with my family and not worry about having to be air lifted out!! I would shop for in-style clothes. And not leave the store deflated and depressed. Is it just me or do the mirrors in clothing stores make you 5 sizes bigger?? I might even ride a roller coaster again. I would hope to be more confident. I know that I should be confident just because Jesus loves me. But accomplishing a goal with the Lord’s help has got to give you more confidence.
Well last week I lost 2 pounds. Only 98 to go!! I have been sticking to my regiment. Please continue to pray for me.
Wow, what a great question. I almost teared up just reading it. I realized that there is much I don’t do because I lack the confidence. I let my weight control so much of what I do or don’t do.
*I would love to stand in my closet and know that anything in there fits and looks good on me…instead of feeling defeated and wondering if anything actually will fit at all. Not a good way to start the day.
*I would buy a tankini. Something I’ve never felt looked good on me.
*I would exercise with my skinny husband.
*I would sky dive.
*I would ask my husband to give me a piggy back ride and not be embarrassed by that request.
*I would sit in a pool/beach chair in my swim suit w/o covering myself up with 2 towels and a cover-up.
Now I’m going to go write this list down so I can remind myself about this new confidence I’m building. I’ve had a great week. Lots of water, 3-4 mile walks every day, good food choices….but I’m going to weigh next Monday.
For me I think it’s more of a question of how I’d feel rather than what I’d do. I do most everything actively with my kids already but I’d feel more confident in doing these activities if I’d lose weight. I have posted notes on my elliptical saying things like, “Gain confidence”, “feel strong”, “feel good in my clothes.”
All in all my week was a good one. I have to admit that this blog helped to keep me on track. Yesterday I wanted a handful of chocolate chips in the worst way and knew if I did I wouldn’t stop with just one handful. Then I remembered that “tomorrow is Weight Loss Wednesday” so I skipped the chocolate chips and had a handful of tomatoes instead.
I was down 3 pounds this morning bringing my weightloss to 9 pounds!! 11 pounds to go to reach my goal of 20 pounds!! We can do this girls!!!!
Carol… Congratulations to you and your new hubby!!
My roommate went to She Speaks last year. We were not roommates when she signed up for the conference, but by the time it rolled around I was super jealous I wasn’t going too. She was a little timid at first, but it totally changed her and gave her a boldness I hadn’t seen in her before. So, this whole year, I’ve been wondering how I could find a way to go myself.
I don’t have the money…like a lot of people these days. I do have a heart for women. I’m developing a love for writing that I don’t understand. I have always been a bit of a performer so I’m comfortable speaking/talking with people, but I have no training in either. I’m not sure where God is directing me, but I know I need some honing in both these areas to get there.
Lots of potential…needing some direction.
~Laura
laurarmullen.wordpress.com
My husband travels in his job and has thousands of frequent flying miles. He is always trying to get me to go somewhere and I also have an excuse ready – but the real excuse is the seatbelt on the plane does not go around me. How could I have let this happen to me? I am a relatively intelligent professional 54 year old woman; I have two beautiful grown daughters and 4 awesome grandchildren; and I am 140 pounds overweight. I used Karen’s calorie counting formula from last August to December and lost 30 pounds; however, since the holidays, I have not been able to get started again and have gained back all but 8 pounds. I am starting over today and getting out my food journal (which always helps me). Let’s stay focused so we will not only have life but life more abundant!
My daughter will graduate next year & I’m already dreading her senior trip. I know that she wants to go on a cruise or some other trip that involves lots of time on the beach or at the pool. I have a year to take off this 55 pounds but I still worry that I will be too embarassed to swim & enjoy the trip. ( Did I mention she’s the last one?) I haven’t been swimming in a few years & my husband told me tecently that he would like to go swimming this summer. All I could think was not while I look like this. Didn’t lose this week. Still havent’ started exercising & I know that I have to!
The scale didn’t move this week but I’m working harder next week. I’m an emotional eater. Boy, does that work me over.
I would love to be able to attend She Speaks, but financially it has been a difficlut season. I pray God will bless the woman who is supposed to win this scholarship, but that He will enable all of us to continue to tell our stories.
I believe that we all have a story to tell. Our stories are all different, but I believe that God is truly the author of them all. My greatest desire is to use my story to show His glory in my life.
I want to enable others to see the Hope that they can have as they trust Jesus on the journey.
Wow! I am so overwhelmed. My first time to this site. I had a crying fit after reading this. There are so many things I would do, say, or be. I married my wonderful husband 15 years ago shortly after high school. We started on our family right away. Since then I have lived carelessly, taking care of only them. My family is my pride and joy. In this process I have gained 150 lbs. That’s so hard to swollow for someone who was an athlete.I had so much energy, passion, and personality. I still do, but I keep a lot of it bottled up because of fear. My biggest fear hit at Christmas when I had a health scare. Lucky for me most everything checked out good. But I need to take my life back. Be the person God made me to be. I lost 15 lbs since Christmas pretty quickly, but have been in a stand still for the past4 weeks. Pray for me. That I can keep hope even when I feel hopeless. I’m starting each day new. Only with the Lord’s help!
Nancy-I LOVE your response and have to say that I second everything you said. I’d also like to ride a bike, wear shorts without being paranoid, and fell comfortable in a dress.
I lost 5 lbs since last month, as that was when I was last at the doctor. I have a new Wii Fit Plus that I love and am working out as I can. I have been grounded from it by my loving hubby until my doc can figure out what is causing my abdominal pain, but I plan to do what I can to keep the weight coming off.
This is my first week and I didn’t weigh today because I was sick all last week and had to be on a steroid. Steroids, as we all know, tend to add weight, so I’m waiting a few days until my body is completely rid of that medicine and then I’ll weigh.
Anyway, when I lose my weight
I will wear shirts tucked in, cute clothes and get rid of the “fat” clothes in my closet! Much more importantly, I will step forth more boldly in what God has called me to do – speak, teach and write for Him!
Wow! I would wear beautiful clothes. I know that may sound silly or materialistic, but I love beautiful clothes- how they feel, how they look, and how they make me feel when I have them on. I would also be more confident in new situations (feeling I stick out) and in bed with my husband.
My week was OK. I lost weight despite a long weekend away with my husband (and no baby!) Things are going OK- except for the stress of our house in NC not selling. For some daily encouragement- check out my blog!
I have had a part time ladies’ ministry for about 7 years. However, about 21 months ago, right when it SEEMED the Lord was leading me into a more full-time speaking ministry it virtually became non-existent. Not through any wrong doing of my own, but through some pretty tough circumstances that instead, had me sitting at His feet and simply being still as He worked on transforming me in ways I could never have imagined (which He is continuing to do). Not to say that every day was spent “being still” because I had many days of doubt, questions and wrestling matches. The reality is, God WAS leading me into more of a full-time capacity, except it was God’s plan to first take me through the fire … “But He knows the way that I take; When He has tested me, I shall come forth as gold!” [exclamation point mine] Job 23:10.
God already knows which precious ladies will be the recipients of the She Speaks scholarship. I’m simply excited for the opportunity to throw my name into the hat and will be thrilled for whomever is selected.
Shelly Brown
http://www.shellybrown.com
shelly@shellybrown.com
If I got this weight off, I would quit being shocked when I look in the mirror. I would be less self-conscious in general, especially with hubby “after hours.” I wouldn’t cringe when he puts his arm around my waist and his hand settles on my fluffy muffin-top. I would see the girl who is hiding inside.
I skipped the scale this week, as hubby’s birthday was last weekend and I know I ate more cake than I needed. I have been walking daily during my lunch break! Only a few blocks, but I’m moving.
Good luck, Sisters!
I’d have the confidence to put on my bathing suit and get outside this summer with my boys. We may even head to the lake/beach and get in the water!
My results were good – down 2 pounds. I’ll take it! I exercised less because I was very busy with other things…I need to slow myself down so I can get back into my exercise -and-planning-healthy-meals-groove.
Hi Karen,
Isn’t it funny how food often holds a spiritual connection. I loved your post!
I’m part of the crowd of ladies posting in hopes of a scholarship and I have to say, Cec Murphey’s generosity is truly inspiring! Almost every time I see the opportunity for scholarships to “She Speaks” and to other conferences, they come attached with Cec’s name as the benefactor. So thank you, Cec and thank you Proverbs 31 women for offering yet another opportunity for a chance to go to this wonderful conference.
As a speaker of over 20 years and a newbie to the world of writing and publishing, I find that the simplest way to express why I want to attend “She Speaks” is because I feel as though I’m supposed to be there and I know that unless the Lord provides financially for me to go, it’s just not in our financial cards this year.
Not only do I sense that I’m supposed to be there, but also that I “need” to be there, as well. I can’t explain it. But I’m truly looking forward to how the Lord will use my time at “She Speaks” to change me, to develop me, and to give me the opportunity to do one of my favorite things…spend time with like-minded women who long to make a difference for the glory of God.
Thanks again for this opportunity!
Eternally His,
Stephanie Shott
Phil 3:7-14
dshott1@msn.com
How can they hear the message if we do not speak? My heart burns to share His word with other women. I want to help generate thirst and hunger…I want my words to have value because they are spoken about and for Him. I want the women of my generation and those after me to become the new Deborahs, Lydias, Tabithas and Priscillas. My gifting and my passion is to teach. If one spark can be ignited, then the flame can be fanned, and a fire will begin. I want to fan the flames.
http://www.tamera-thechamberednautilus.blogspot.com
myredcord@gmail.com
I love your story! Thank you for being so real! Women need to know they are NOT alone in their stuggles!
I have been dreaming of She Speaks for several years. My husband and friends have pushed me to take the leap of speaking. I’ve loved every opportunity I have had to do that. But I know that God wants to fine tune my call and SS would definitely do that!
It’s up to God and I trust that He knows just what I need!
I’m willing to work hard to achieve the confidence it takes to lead other’s through a speaking ministry!
It’s thrilling to be a part of such a cool ministry as Proverbs 31. You chicks are precious!
I confess this past week hasn’t been the best. Both my kiddies had the stomach flu last week and I managed to get a nasty bought of strep throat…I was tired and sick…I ate LOTS of comfort food.
I just desire to be healthy, to feel healthy. To not worry that when I sit down, my spare tire shows. Or to wear a tank top and not feel self conscience about my arms. I also long to be in pictures with my kids. I avoid cameras at ALL costs (much like Shonda).
I know that by carrying extra weight, it is affecting my energy and therefore my energy to do God’s work. So, I desire to lose weight so that I have the confidence to be all He desires me to be.
Thanks for all your open, honest comments. It’s nice to know that I am not alone! I too desire to wear nicer clothes, a dress and just feel good about myself
I think I’d have more courage – for many things – but mostly to step out of my comfort zones (which by the way aren’t truly comfortable or comforting) into the unknown, where I am walking out the purpose and plan that God has designed for me. My insecurity about my weight has made me feel incapable of being effective – and letting ‘feelings’ lead me has kept me from seeking His purpose for me with my whole heart. I don’t like that or want to live that way anymore.
I’m not sure what the specifics are, but I know God is.
I’m not sure where the destination is, but I know He is.
All that I’m sure of is that He is moving in me, working in me, preparing me, and beginning to open doors that are beckoning me to enter. It’s due to those recognitions that I am stepping out, beyond my fears and entering this giveaway.
Lord, if it is in Your will for me to attend She Speaks, I pray for the door to be opened and for the courage to leap through with abundant faith. I pray for each woman entering, that You will clearly manifest Your way and Your will for their lives. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
If I wasn’t worried about my weight and what I looked like I would wear sleeveless shirts. I live in a very a city where the climate is extremely hot and it would be great to wear sleeveless shirts. I just joined weight watchers so I’m excited to see the pounds come off now that I have something to help me with my eating. I now have a 3rd strand to help me on my journey!
What would I do? Well this really hit home because I realized that there was a whole lot of things that I want to do – hike, camp, take dance lessons. The list goes on and on. And frankly life is too short to worry about what I look like while attempting those things. I pray that I will just have the courage to seize the day and go for it! I would say that I had better days than not this week where the weight and eating are concerned. Lost 1 lb. Rejoined WW and this time I seem to be more committed. I am a lifetime member who has fallen off the wagon, but is desperately trying to get back on.
I’m with Lori
I’m looking forward to wearing dresses and feeling feminine again 
I’m with a lot of other people too in that I’m looking forward to feeling comfortable getting my picture taken…and not just a face shot! lol
This has been my first week on a high protein diet (non Atkins) and so far I’ve lost about 5 lbs! I’m excited but realizing what hard work changing your eating habits is…I’m trying to rely on God’s strength and feeling encouraged by his Word:-)
This week was okay – with child number two in a musical this past weekend, we ate a lot of fast food between shows. But, I also exercised regularly this past week, and the scale did not move. My husband’s college buddy passed away Friday evening, and tomorrow is the funeral. We are feeling stressed, but also feel like the family is doing as well as can be expected under the circumstances.
I am feeling the tug of God on my heart to go into a speaking ministry. I am like Moses was when God told him to go speak to the people and Moses didn’t feel he was worthy or able to do so. God is not letting me use that excuse. I feel convicted to do to this.
I believe my life experiences could reach many hurting women.
I want to attend the She Speaks conference so badly. This year I made my decision to listen to God and stop furthering my education to teach nursing so I could further my education by reading God’s Word and teaching it. What a ride it has been! I know He has great things in store for me and I feel that this conference will get me on my way to reach this journey He wants for me. Please consider me for this scholarship. My husband is not getting enough work even to pay the power bill let alone for me to come to the conference. I know God will provide and am praying that you will choose me for this wonderful opportunity. I had not heard of She Speaks conference until this year and when I felt God has called me to teach His Word to women again (which I did not 14 years and then stopped for 5 years)I felt like this was confirmation to get me on my journey that God has called me on with Him. Reading all these comments on all the blogs – wouldn’t it be wonderful if all of us could go and meet each other and with all of us being trained and starting to lead and teach women throughout the United States – there would be GREAT REVIVAL among women!! Wouldn’t that be awesome! I am so excited to be a part of all of this whether I am chosen or not to know that I am part of God’s chosen women is a great honor!
TWO SMALL – BUT HUGE THINGS WOULD BE PLAYING BALL WITH MY SON AND HAVING A FAMILY PORTRAIT DONE. I HAVEN’T WEIGHED YET THIS MONTH BUT I DID MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A NUTRITIONIST TO HELP ME WITH MY DIETAND HAVE BEEN EATING SALADS AND LOTS ON BAKED CHICKEN INSTEAD OF BURGERS
Praise God I lost 5 lbs this week. My first week of trying to eat healthy. For the past two years my daughter and I have participated in the Komen Race for the Cure on Mother’s Day. She runs the 5K and I walk it. This year I had all but given up on keeping up the tradition. I can barely walk around the block without shortness of breath and back pain. But I have committed to it and the goal of walking one mile each day this week, two miles a day next week and 3 miles as many times as possible the week before the event. So far I did the one mile (on my treadmill) Monday and today.
If I weren’t embarrassed (or limited) by my weight, I would go country line dancing, hiking, or go on another short term missions trip to Africa or where ever God leads me. I would try horseback riding and get back into tennis. I would learn how to sail and go to a waterpark. Maybe even water ski. I might take up tap dancing or ballet, definitely yoga. I pray that God would give me the strength to reach my first goal by Mother’s Day. Then, who knows?? God bless you all.
lost 2 # this week… not as active as I would like to be… I want to be able to play with my 4 kids and take them swimming and to the amusement park and be thin enough to ride the rides and wear a suit I feel comfortable in… If I were thinner I feel like I would have so much more confidence in myself and I would try things without hesitating… I want to be prould of who God created me to be, I want to be someone my family can be proud of too…
I am very excited to see another opportunity has been presented to give one blessed lady the chance to attend She Speaks. I was a little let down when I realized I missed the last opportunity to participate for a chance to win a scholarship to the conference. I am grateful for this opportunity.
I know I have been called to be a mouthpiece for the kingdom of God. Speaking before an audience, big or small, is not an easy thing to do for most people. As for me, I belong to that group of “most people” I just mentioned. I truly believe She Speaks will arm me with the skills necessary to perfect my speaking ability so that I may go forth with my calling with confidence.
I keep telling myself I am going to attend She Speaks, maybe this year it will become a reality for me.
Thank you.
Misty A Brown
mistybrown01@yahoo.com
I am amazed at the common ground between us. My heart is so full as I read all of your posts.
I prayed that God would bless you all and that you will see HIS perfect plan in all of your circumstances.
I know my weight gain started from depression and disobedience. I first felt powerless to stop it and then choose to hide behind it. I would LOVE to wear cute clothes and a new bathing suit as so many of you mentioned. Mostly, I would like to be intimate with my husband again. Although I only need to loose 20-30 pounds, it seems to be a huge barrier between us.
Kim – I LOVE your “excersize devotion” class idea. Please let me know if you have specific guidelines or if you ever get to try to do it.
Kimberly – I too am an emotional eater….I am trying this week to substitute with non-alcoholic, low calorie drink “treats” – special coffee, iced tea….
Becky – There are so many great testimonies of people getting back their good health – keep going – even a little will make such a difference…
Thank – ps – I would not be able to go to the conference so please do not consider this post for the drawing…:)
I would love to wear swimming togs and singlet tops. I don’t know what else, maybe get my drivers licence which I have failed twice and not had the confidence to do again. But then not driving means I have to walk everywhere and that is the much needed exercise!
) I have asked my WW leader for some extra accountability this week so she will be checking my food diary next weigh in. A bit scary but hopefully the boost that I need.
I had a bad week this week and gained 1.2kgs. It was hubby’s birthday and I had lots of eating related things and no resistence to temptation! I have been doing WW for nearly 2 years and am feeling over thinking points and tracking etc. It has been great though as it has helped me loose so much weight but 2 years feels like such a long time (I’m not really a big picture person!
Thanks Karen for this opportunity to share our journey. God bless, have a great week.
Lost 3 pounds this week regularly exercising and doing okay on the eating front. I’m sure if I did better with my food journal and keeping track of calories, I’d be more consistent. If I lost the weight, I’d love to go to the pool more often -with family and friends. I love swimming and would love to not be self conscious in a bathing suit. Aaahh how freeing that would be.
in the beginning of this year i took a resolution that i would cut off sugar and any deep fried food from my diet. i said that each time i would indulge in it i would be OFFENDING God and i did not want to do it… this has really helped me immensely…. i do not go on the scales as my own policy but i know i have lost in inches.. i have people who have stopped me and asked what i have been doing so it is becoming visible… i have fallen off the bandwagon a few times only when i have been with freinds / strangers and i do not want to make a big show of my resolution that i eat it…but i jump right back to my promise… this has completely become a obedience to god exercise for me now….
As some of you have mentioned, I too, am a WW. I started when my daughter (now 7) was 8-weeks old. I am currently in good standing as a Lifetime member, and vow to remain! I lost 2.2 lbs this week and know that it is all about journaling and exercising for me. Making healthy choices, asking for God’s help, and trying to remind myself that my body is God’s temple . . . Even though I am at the WW weight goal, I’m not where I would like to be, so am still trying for those last 5 lbs. I would love to feel more confident in a bathing suit, and not to be tugging on the bottoms all the time . . . Who knows, maybe this 46-year-old will get confident enough in her body to show my stomach again!!!
Good luck this week, everybody!
I’ve felt called to attend shespeaks for a few years, both in the writing and speaking capacity. As a unpaid servant for our youth group, I lead the Sunday night services in which I’m responsible for sharing the gospel wtih our future! Speaking, teaching, writing… all gifts, and I would love the opportunity to be able to better craft these gifts so that I can do the best job possible for the Lord… because I do want to hear Him say.. “Well done.”
Thank you for the opportunity.
desperatelyseekingheather@gmail.com
Lysa your testimony and books has been such a blessing and an inspiration in my life and spiritual walk. I was seriously contemplating a divorce and I received an email from a friend and the topic you were speaking on happened to be on marriage, GOD was truly speaking to me. Since that day which was less than a month ago I purchased What Happens When Women say Yes to GOD, read it and it truly ministered to my soul, Next I purchased Being more than a good bible study girl–Truly Awesome!! My husband bought me What Happens When Women Walk in Faith on yesterday, I am loving it already. I am called to ministry and I know this conference is for me. My grandmother always tell me that I should have been a counselor she also prophesied to me saying GOD was going to use me for his Glory and to minister to other young woman. I know that GOD has a calling on my life and I just want to do his will only. I came into contact with Proverbs 31 ministry by divine order and I know that through your ministry GOD is going to help me to help others. Be Blessed!! Love Ya!! Oh I also purchased a NIV study BIBLe I have a Bible but this one teaches the word more understandable.
When I accidentally
I can’t say that my weight has kept me from doing things, but as I get older, my weight is creeping up and it is harder to get the extra pounds off than it used to be. Thanks for the opportunity to share with you and the others. I did have a good week and lost 2 pounds. I exercised more and have been trying some new recipes out. I just need to remember it’s about the long haul. Having a healthier life style that will lead to a healthier life as I continue to age. Thanks for everyone’s support!
I probably wouldn’t have had such insecurity issues and truly been the ruin of my marriage with my questioning and trust issues.
When I accidentally ran across your blog, I just couldn’t believe my luck. Then I realized that it wasn’t an accident or luck at all. It was the will of a loving Father that caused me to find just what I needed,just when I needed it the most.
My goal is to lose 2 pounds per week until I’ve reach a healthy, fit weight(I am asking God’s guidance on that right number).
To answer the question of what would I do if weight wasn’t an issue: I would wear more stylish clothing, do more activities with my family, and allow my picture to be taken.
Lost 1 lbs. this week, YEAH!!!!
sorry I didn’t check in yesterday, got swamped with work and an email migration this week.
I am trying to eat better and smaller portions. The candy dish on the front desk at work sometimes calls my name and most of the time I can ignore it. I am walking some. In the past, I did this all or nothing thing. Talk about setting yourself up for failure, that will do it.
I am not sure what I would do. Being able to bend over and tie my shoes without feeling like I am going to black out would be nice. I would like to have that feeling for the rest of my days.
I agree with Kylie, thank you Karen for giving this opportunity to share. Bless you everyone!
I’m just a small town Pastor’s wife who loves to share with humor and transparency things learned through life in the trenches, the fish bowl, and the home…oh wait, a pastor’s home is the trenches and the fish bowl. My bad. : ) I sing, I write, I speak…all on a small scale thus far but I am eager to leap out of the nest and fly. A chance to attend a conference of the awesome caliber of She Speaks would bless me beyond my imagination…and I have a pretty big imagination.
Mari
http://www.marilavell.com/
Thank you so much for this additional giveaway!
I have felt so strongly that I need to be at She Speaks this year – the only reason I haven’t registered yet is money!
I am passionate both about speaking and writing – I’ve been teaching Bible studies in my local church for several years now, creating them from my Bible training at Cedarville University and from my own study of the Scriptures. It has been EXCITING to see how God has been transforming lives through women getting into the Word on a deeper level!
After teaching for a while, God opened opportunities for me to speak at several womens’ retreats through our church. About the same time, I began blogging and have been stunned to see how God has grown and used this little “ministry” from my living room.
At this point in my life, God is opening doors for me to continue teaching, writing, and speaking – and I would love to glean from the wisdom and training at the Proverbs 31 conference!
Thank you again for the opportunity!
A very close friend first introduced me to Proverbs 31 Ministry. I was going through a vital trial in my life. She read one of the daily devotionals and emailed it to me. She felt that I needed the encouragement that day. It was encouraging. Soon after that, I received another emailed devotional from my friend. Again, she felt I needed encouragement and again, I was. I decided to sign up for the daily devotionals and get them emailed directly to me. I am so glad I did. On many occasions I have been inspired, motivated, encouraged, and equipped with God’s Word. It has been refreshing to read about real life stories from other Christian women.
Over the past few years, probably close to about eight or nine years now, I have been slowly pursuing what I believe God is calling me to do for Him: write and speak. I want to encourage others (especially women) to trust Jesus, live for Him, and believe in the power of Him. No matter what, He is good.
It has been a journey I have needed encouragement and focus to succeed. God has provided this every step of the way. I completed my bachelor’s degree in communication studies in 2009 and just got accepted into a graduate school program for a master’s of art in communication. I know this traditional educational is a necessary part of my journey.
When I saw last week the “She Speaks” conference information, I was again encouraged. This is so awesome that this type of conference is being put together. In the years I have known about Proverbs 31 Ministry, I never seen this before. It just lifted my spirit to know there are people out there helping train others to pursue and live out their dreams, their calling of writing and speaking. I am one of those.
I have never attended a “She Speaks” conference, but it would be amazing to be trained and mentored by others who have been traveling this path already. As I entered the writing contest, I knew it was a long shot, but I also knew it was time to take that risk and put my writing out there for others to read besides professors. I did not win, but I am so thankful I submitted my article. I will continue to work on that article. It is worth the effort. It is worth telling others about.
Now, I have another opportunity to win a chance of attending the “She Speaks” conference. This is very exciting. No matter whether I get to the conference this year or not, I will continue to pray for the Proverbs 31 Ministry team, the training, and the conference so that God’s will be done for whoever does attend. Plus, I will keep writing and pursuing His calling on my life.
Thank you for putting in all the time and effort to help others become what God has called them to do for Him.
In Christ’s love,
Michelle Barringer
mrbarringer1@mac.com
weight loss thursday? forgot to log on and leave my info yesterday because I wanted to take the time t read the posts. I had a good week lost 3 pounds and am back at pre pregnancy weight!! I just got the new Beth Moore book about insecurity and cant wait to get reading. If my weight wasnt an issue I would… water ski..try to anyway..play volleyball on the beach…feel comfortable in social settings (which I think isnt so much my weight but my own insecurities… let me go read that Beth Moore book!) I will pray for you ladies and really get strength from reading your posts.
Maybe Karen can do a face book group for WLW stuff, you can make it private so that someone would have to ask you to join. But if we called it Weight Loss Wednesday I may be to insecure to join!! hee hee let me go do dishes. take care
It is so refreshing to see God using all of His women to work together and spread His truth!
If I do win, this will be a God given answer to prayers and leading me into my dreams!
God is leading me on an incredible journey. It is this journey, seeking out a writing/speaking conference that I found this scholarship give-away! Is it a “God coincidence” that it was the first place I looked? God only knows!
Kathryn Prus
Kathrynprus@gmail.com
As a young, teenage girl I stumbled across God’s timeless wisdom for women as wives and mothers found in Proverbs 31:10-31. That “awakening” became the desire of my heart from my youth onward…although I would bump and tumble to a fantastic fall to my face before the Lord before I would realize it.
The summer of 1998 I found myself pregnant, but unwed. Pride shattered and prostrate before the Lord, my Redeemer cleansed me, forgave me, clothed me, and began restoring me (Psalm 51). He granted me a willing spirit to sustain me and garbed me in everlasting joy (Psalm 30).
God’s blessings for obedience began to overflow. A month and 18 days later I married my best friend, soul mate, and the daddy of my first son, “Gift from God.” The Lord reassured me that he could STILL use me and I prayed as King David did, “Lord, let me teach transgressors your ways.” He initially confirmed His word with an instant ministry to a young mom with a story just like mine.
In 2003 the Lord placed the call on my heart to write for Him. He has confirmed His call in more ways and encounters than I can count or name. He has shown me who I am and who I am not. Not one step or season I have lived in has returned void. Rather, God has grown and groomed me for greater things He has set for me ever since He called me. Like Abraham who believed God’s promise, the Lord has asked me, “Do I believe Him that the Almighty WILL accomplish this?”
I remember my Lord, the Promise-keeper. Not ONE of His good promises has ever failed. He knows what I need before I ask. Before a word is even on my tongue, He is there. He KNOWS me completely. Hearkening back, I can trace His hand in my life, connecting the dots He has set for me. My Lord has never left me. His presence, promises, and protection are mine. He is FAITHFUL.
I answer, “Yes, Lord. I BELIEVE you.” I ask and pray. I wait. I study His word. I connect with the Lord as His Holy Spirit guides, convicts, and teaches me. He shows me my “next step”. I cling to the word He spoke to my heart, “The one who calls you IS FAITHFUL, and HE WILL DO IT.” 1 Thessalonians 5:24
Just today I asked the Lord to clarify my “next step” for ministry. As if the “green light” from my amazing husband and dual support of my Little Mama and mother-in-love (“My Naomi”), discovering this scholarship opportunity tonight was nothing short of God’s impeccable timing. A gift trip to my first She Speaks conference would be yet another confirmation from my Lord that I am keeping in step with His Spirit. While I make plans in my heart, the Lord directs my steps. Praise Him!
Shannon Lee Cochran
mscochran@austin.rr.com
How would winning the “She Speaks” entry be an answer to my prays?? It would show me how gracious our blessed Lord and Savior is to me as I have been seeking His direction intently for almost a year. Knowing that only God could orchestrate such a perfect plan for my life and trusting to follow where He leads. I have never attended a conference and would be humbled to be chosen for this scholarship!
Dena Hutton
huttonfam_5@yahoo.com
I think it is the coolest thing that God in His wisdom chooses to speak through His creations. As women we have a special place in God’s heart and a unique opportunity to reach the hearts of others. I’d love to learn to speak the gospel message more powerfully at the SheSpeaks conference this year.
God Bless!!!
Mary Canfield
luckygal823@gmail.com
Karen,
Weight wise, my week has been pretty good since I’ve been sick. :S
In truth, I enjoy my food and I’ve partly given up on that concept of skinny. Health is paramount in the battle of my bulge. I’m still overweight and I have my goals but I don’t have to shop the plus size section anymore!!!
I see God working through my life. I have a great job as a lecturer (3 years now). I have a desire to speak about GOD though. And while I squeeze God into my lessons as much as possible, it’s not the same. If there were no limitations no boundaries, I would (I like to think) be out there, kids in tow, running a mission with interaction and worship and bible learning.
To quote one of my son’s favorite movies, “The impossible can become possible, if you’re awesome!” (Rhino, from the movie Bolt) Good thing God is!
-Tricia
My God has great plans for me and my family, it has been a desert walk for about 10 years but He has been so faithful taking me step by step in the direction He desires for my life. It was just impressed upon my heart in the last weeks about public speaking and been confirmed by God through someone else. I truly desire to share more of Him and less of me. Thank you for this awesome opportunity.
Barbara Martin
Pregnant Kimberlee; I am with you on the swimming thing. I have taken lessons in the past and failed miserably. I do not like the way I look in a swimsuit, and I am also very, very white! However, since my husband’s college friend just died of melanoma, and he was not a sunscreen user, I think I will stick with my “healthy” white. My youngest is five, and she would like to take swim lessons. We talked about it last night, and decided to do the parent-child lessons this summer. It will not teach me anything, but it is purely to help her feel comfortable in the water; and it is required in our town to pass parent-child lessons before you can go on your own as a child. I think I have lost a total of about 7 pounds since I started working at it, and although that number does not seem very large, it is big to me.
First of all thanks to all of the servant hearts at P31 Ministries. You are honest and encouraging and I hope to have the opportunity to meet you soon.
God has placed a strong desire in me to share His love, hope and faithfulness with others. Though I’ve faced, wrestled, and walked through many trials, I have this uncontainable JOY in my heart!! I’m ready to share if God’s ready to use me!!!
Pamela
pamela.north@seahec.net
Words matter because people matter more. God called me to the ministry of writing long ago. But as I’ve grown in Him, He’s helped me to view my words as a vehicle to connect people with the One who loves them more than they can imagine. And I believe He intends to use both my written and my spoken words to accomplish His purposes.
As He’s grown my writing, He’s expanded my speaking opportunities. That’s why I began to pray about attending She Speaks. My husband, like many others, has faced the heartbreak of job loss this year. As important as the conference is, family obligations come first. A scholarship would allow me to attend.
I know the One who calls me to speak and to write is faithful. I’ll trust Him to meet the needs of all who enter. Thanks for offering She Speaks along with the scholarship opportunities. And because both words and people matter, I’m grateful.
Honestly, (would you want it any other way?) I haven’t had a problem with my weight. Actually, I went the other way. I’m a breast cancer survivor who went on a chemo diet plan. Being a stay at home mom of 2 little ones, I had to feed the family but even in doing so was becoming anorexic to some degree. Without being too wordy, I think weight should not be an issue. I wouldn’t let weight get in the way of anything. Of course, I try to live by treating our bodies as a holy temple of the Lord. I better stop…you hit a button.
Thank you for the opportunity for a scholarship.
Shelley Rindfuss
mrindfuss@columbus.rr.com
Karen .. I am currently battling my weight and need to step up and do what God has told me to do. Honor God by respecting the temple He gave me. (Step away from the nana pudding Jai, step away!)
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I have wanted to attend SheSpeaks for several years now, but have talked myself out of the opportunity every single year. This year, God provided a major healing of a brain tumor for my son (7yr journey) and I told the Lord when this whole ordeal started that I would shout from the rooftops at everything He allowed and did. I have done that within our “comfort zone” circle, but after he completely HEALED my son 2 months ago, I have felt the Holy Spirit telling me I should share Jordan’s journey with woman across the country. He did NOT heal Jordan just for me and my family, but also for others. He provided a modern miracle for my son and demonstrated that He is still in the healing business, but most of all that we should trust Him with our lives, our decisions, our thoughts, our husband and our families. Throughout this ordeal, I have learned to TRUST HIM, just as he says in Proverbs 3:5,6 – - Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to thine own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and will direct your paths.
Thank you,
Jai@wifeof1momof4
wifeof1momof4@gmail.com
On a scale from 1-10, this week was an 8 regarding weight loss. I lost 1 lb and have been trying to readjust my eating habits since I recently stopped nursing baby #3. I have a long way to go, but I’m doing it- one step at a time.
What I would do if I wasn’t ashamed of my weight…
I am a children’s minister and for the past 3 years, a girlfriend of mine and I have mentored a small group of preteen girls from church. We are passionate about the power of what can happen when the church and parents partner together. We have found that, as mentors, we play a very special role in the lives of these young girls that are becoming more independent. At every meeting we delve into “hot topics” (beauty, friendship, popularity etc) in fun, non-threatening engaging ways (for example-through a discussion at Panera- or at a special events like “beauty night”). Then we creatively help the girls to discover what God has to say about each “hot topic” and leave them with a key verse and a dare/ application. This has been so powerful for girls (introduces Girls to a relationship with Christ, helps them to form close friendships, helps with the transition from Children’s Ministry to youthgroup, builds confidence and community, and helps them to develop a biblical worldview). Parents love our group because we are their biggest cheerleaders and we are another voice in their child’s life that is pointing them to Christ.
We believe that the Lord is going to raise up more solid, female Christian preteen girl mentors all across the US. For the past year, we have been developing a curriculum and have been co-writing a book designed to equip women to serve as a small group mentor.
If I was not ashamed of my weight, I would be launching into this ministry with gusto. I would 1) finish the tools we’re developing 2) do video blog posts to help spread the idea (and I wouldn’t think “does the webcam add 10 lbs?”) 3. offer workshops and training events for women that are interested. 4. put together the coolest conference ever for preteen girls and their moms/ female role model
*5. I would not be worried that women would would just tune me out thinking sub-consciously, “She’s overweight. No offense, but I don’t know if there’s much she can teach me about being an example for the next generation of girls.”
My struggle with weight is my biggest barrier to fully accepting who I am in Christ. I know what God says about me. I just want it to sink deep into my heart in a way that sets me free to enjoy my relationship with Him and his calling to equip women for ministry to young girls.
I would be honored to be chosen for the “She Speaks” scholarship. I know that this is just the beginning of what God has in store.
Thanks-
Jen
I wouldn’t hate buying clothes. And I’d never wear overblouses again. And not fear my arms showing. I’d swim without being embarrassed. And go for walks without my knees hurting. And never fear ‘less than’ because of my weight. And never think about being overweight, how to lose weight, etc. again.
I wouldn’t be too ashamed to go to the gym. My husband doesn’t understand why I won’t go work out when we have a family membership…I don’t want all the skinny women in their spandex looking at me and laughing. I would also take swimming lessons and swim for exercise and enjoyment.