Blast Out Blog Tour for Trish Berg’s Latest Release…Rattled: Surviving Your Baby’s First Year without Losing Your Cool

Hey all…..

Today I am hosting an interview with my new cyber friend Trish Berg about her newest book release. I was asked several months back if I would read the manuscript for it and possibly offer endorsement. I read it and LOVED it! Sure wish I’d had it 17 years ago! And Trish has a way of writing that makes you feel like you are sharing a cup of coffee with a dear friend. Well, now I will get to meet Trish next month when we at Hearts at Home invited her to speak at our National Conference in Illinois. It will be her first time. I’ll be appearing on main stage that weekend at the Friday night Moms Night Out doing our famous “Hats” skit about the many hats a mom wears during the day and I’ll also be speaking in the morning keynote session. Then, later in the day, Trish and I will each do two breakout workshop sessions. Mine on my new book The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized where I’ll split the book into two workshops; managing your time and organizing your “stuff”. Trish will present talks on this new release as well as her Great American Supper Swap. Fun!

Well, if you’d like to win one of two copies of Rattled that I’ll be giving away this weekend, just post a comment by Sunday night at 9:00 p.m. EST. Tell us about what was the greatest challenge for you when you first became a mom. Or if no one calls you mommy yet, what is your greatest fear of being a new mom? I’ll announce the winners on Monday. Good enough? Here is the interview with Trish:

Rattled: Surviving Your Baby’s First Year Without Losing Your Cool

Can you change a diaper faster than a rodeo cowboy ropes a calf? Need more sleep,
more laughter, and ten minutes in the bathroom – alone?

You must be a mom….Don’t let the clutter, chaos, exhaustion and Cheerio-dust get you Rattled.
With practical advice and scriptural reminders, author Trish Berg can help you not only survive the chaos and clutter of motherhood, but get back to the simple joy of being a mom.

I am excited to welcome Trish Berg, joining us today to talk about her new mom book, Rattled, Surviving Your Baby’s First Year without Losing Your Cool!

Trish is author of The Great American Supper Swap and Rattled. She has been published in Today’s Christian Woman, MOMSense,, P31 WOMAN, and numerous regional and national publications.

Trish earned her MBA before leaving the workforce for motherhood, then earned her Doctorate in Diaper Changing in Ohio where she and her husband, Mike, keep busy raising their four children on their family cattle farm.

Trish, welcome. Thanks for taking time to be with us today.

Thanks for having me.

So why is it so easy for moms to get rattled during their baby’s first year?

Motherhood is simply draining and exhausting. Hands down the toughest job I have ever had.

But moms are not alone, and I want moms to know that God walks with them through these exhausting years.

What stresses moms out the most?

I think moms put a lot of pressure on themselves to do it all by themselves, and to do it all the right way. They need to simplify, let go of many details, and ask for help, from their husbands, and from neighbors and friends.

Rattled actually begins by looking at the months of pregnancy. How can moms use this time to prepare to survive baby’s first year?

Nine months is not nearly enough time to fully prepare for motherhood. I am not sure there is enough time to fully prepare.

I remember when our first child, Hannah, was born, I felt that my world had been turned upside down. Hannah did not like to sleep, and so we spent many nights walking the floor, bouncing her up and down, trying desperately to settle her down. My husband, Mike, and I took turns walking laps around the house, like the Indy 500 with a lot more bouncing.

I am not sure I could have prepared for that.

But during your pregnancy, you can prepare in other ways. Like arranging for help. Ask your mom or mother-in-law if they can spend one day with you each week during the first few months. Just knowing someone is coming in the morning to help with the baby can make the being up all night not seem so terrible.

You talk about surviving motherhood. How do you help moms do that?

In Rattled, I talk about a mom’s survival kit. If you were thrown out into the wilderness, you would need FOOD, SHELTER, FIRE and WATER to survive.

Well, moms have been thrown out into the wilderness of motherhood, and to survive, they will need:

Water from the word (2 Samuel 22:3a) –To be in God’s Word.

A fire like desire for prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:17) – Moms can pray their way through their day.

Nourishment body, mind and spirit (1 Corinthians 13:13) – Love on all levels nourishes us.

Shelter from life’s storms (Proverbs 17:17)-Friends to lean on, trust, and support us.

In Rattled, I spend some time talking about how moms can use that survival kit to get back to the joy of mothering.

You spent a lot of time listening to what other mothers had to say. Share with us your best advice for new moms.

I would tell moms to relax. No one does it right all the time. Let the laundry pile up. Leave the dishes in the sink, and just enjoy holding your baby today.

Don’t worry about doing “it” right, just enjoy the moments you have.

That is sound advice…

But what aboud dads? Give us a few tips into what dad is going through during the first year.

Dads are just as insecure as moms are about parenthood. Even more so in many cases.

Moms do much of the baby feeding, diaper changing, and baby care. So dads can sometimes feel left out, and incapable of caring for their own baby.

One thing moms can do is encourage dad to be involved. But in doing so, moms must let go of “their way” of doing things, and let dad discover his own way.

For example. When Hannah was a baby, every time Mike would change her diaper, I would criticize the way he changed it. I tried to teach him how to put his fingers under the leg elastic and make sure it wasn’t bunched up, preventing a future leak.

But every time I criticized him, he stepped back and became less involved. And you know what? Even when I did the diapers the “right way” they still sometimes leaked.

So I had to learn to let Mike change her diaper his own way. I let him put her to bed his way, bathe her his way, and be the dad God wanted him to be.

That can be difficult for moms who can tend to be slight control freaks when it comes to baby care.

But let me just encourage you that the help you will get from dad if you can let go of those details will bless you in more ways than you can imagine!

In Rattled you’re very open about the loss of your own pregnancy in 2002. How has that loss changed your outlook on motherhood?

I in the 2nd trimester of my fourth pregnancy when I went in for a regular check up. I was not having any problems at all, and went in alone.

My OB/GYN performed an ultrasound just to check for twins, and suddenly my world turned upside down when he could not find a heart beat.

I was completely devastated. Mike and I had two weeks of further testing before we had assurance that our baby had died. And through it all, I prayed for a miracle, my miracle, that my baby would be alive again.

But in the end, God’s miracle was not that my baby survived. God’s miracle was the reassurance that He used me as a vessel to bring a tiny soul to Heaven.

A year later, I lost another child to miscarriage.

Today, I have a greater sense of love and appreciation for my four children here on earth whom I hug with my arms, and a closer tie to Heaven where my two babies are waiting for me, whom I can only hug with my heart for now.

Today you’re the mom of 4 happy and healthy children. What do you see as the greatest blessing about being a mom?

I would say learning patience, but my husband would laugh out loud at that…since I am probably one of the most impatient people there is.

So I guess I would have to say enjoying the journey. I live Psalm 118:24 every day of my life.

“This is the day that the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it.”

Life is messy. Things break. Kids get sick. But moms need to remember to enjoy the journey no matter where the journey leads.

Today at the Berg house, our washing machine is broken. Our mini van needs new tires. We are hanging onto Mike’s 1986 Jeep on a wing and a prayer, hoping it makes it another year or so.

There is mud on my kitchen floor, crumbs on my carpet, and I can honestly say that I love my life. Just as it is.

Now, I certainly have moments where I get stressed and discouraged, and can even lose my temper (just ask my kids), but I am also learning to enjoy each moment of every day as a gift from God.

And thorough it all, my simple hope and prayer is that I can be the mom that God wants me to be.

Where can readers learn more about you, Rattled, your other books, and your ministry to moms?

My website at offers tons of FREE resources, links and downloads for moms, as well as more information on my books and ministry.

Moms can also purchase their own copy of Rattled by clicking here.

And I will be speaking at all 3 Hearts at Home Conferences in 2008, I would LOVE for you to join me there. The National conference is in March in Illinois, and in the fall there is a conference in Michigan and Minnesota. You can get more information and register at

Thanks, Trish, for joining us today. What a joy to meet you and learn more about your new mom book Rattled.

Thanks for having me. Blessings to you.

You can catch up with Trish all weekend long on her BLAST OUT BLOG TOUR by going to the following sites. There will be FREE book prizes, and great moms to connect with at each blog.







  1. My greatest challenge was being sleep deprived. I absolutely LOVE getting 8 hours of sleep (in a row!) at night, and feel in a fuzzy funk without that. Thank God those days pass and baby (and me) sleep 8 hours in a row now.

    Thank you for the chance to win Rattled and for your terrific blog! Loved meeting you at Moms Day Out in Escondido this year and also watching your inspirational interview on the 700 Club!


  2. I would love to win a copy of this book, please enter me, thanks!

    My greatest challenge was not getting a hot meal! it seemed like everytime dinner was ready, the baby wanted to eat. I eventually learned to eat fast, lol! now I have 7 kids and am still grateful to get hot food :)

  3. Hi, Thanks for a wonderful author interview and her insight to her new book! Please enter me in your fantastic book drawing!
    Thanks very much…..Cindi

  4. Karen – this is great! i’m teaching a bible study with lots of new moms so i’m going to refer them to this! thanks – And yes, i was so rattled by the whole mom thing. mel

  5. Sounds like a great book! Can’t wait to read it and give it away to new moms at Moms and More.

    I think my greatest challenge as a new mom was the quietness of my life. I thought I was going to lose my mind because there was no one to talk to or interact with. Telemarketers were my friends! We moved when my first born was 4 months old and I knew no one so had no support base of any kind. The quietness of my day about drove me crazy. Imagine how Jeff felt when he got home from work and I still had 15,000 words to use up!

    Funny how things change…now quiet is a pleasure that I relish!


  6. Nothing quite prepares you for motherhood… but a few words of wisdom from a been-there-done-that seasoned mom sure would go a long way on a long day…

    I’m a MOPS Coordinator and would love to have this book as a giveaway to a new mom!

    Great interview!

    — Amber

  7. Thanks for posting such an encouraging interview!

    “Or if no one calls you mommy yet, what is your greatest fear of being a new mom?” Probably losing my constant conversation with the Lord throughout the day. Many of my friends say they got “pregnancy brain” and it never goes away! Forgetfulness, busyness, lack of attention and concentration…those are the things I don’t want to come in and rob my alone time with God.

    Have a super, warm weekend!! Samantha

  8. This couldn’t come at a better time! I have two baby shower gifts that I am putting together. I always give a book as it is the gif that keeps on giving. So I hope I win one! Great interview.

  9. Great interview! I have to say, that I have read Rattled and think it is a GREAT book (It would be great to have another copy to give to a friend!).

    Also, Karen, I am so excited to see the “hat” skit at Hearts at Home this year. I have heard so much about it since I’ve joined the Hearts staff!

    See you both at conference!

    Megan Kaeb

  10. Yay, if I post the first comment do I get extra tickets in the drawing?? I am not expecting a baby but I would love to have a copy of Rattled to give away on my blog or to a friend who’s expecting. Great interview!


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